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Your horses rise or fall to what you expect. It turns out you do too.
What do you actually think it takes to make it in horses? Your answer might be the exact thing standing between you and the life you say you want. Pt 2…
Aug 1
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July 2026
Horses are our therapy, so why are we all so dysregulated?
Why life with horses can be both our happy places and the thing that triggers our stress, and how to navigate that uncomfortable reality. Pt 1 of a 4…
Jul 31
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Erin Lane
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The Real Cost of Horses: Volume 2
What two weeks of my real horse finances look like, and why I've decided this is the last installment that gets to be about barely making it work.
Jul 27
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Horse people are the most obsessed non-fans in sports.
In a community with this kind of obsession for horses and horse sport, what's missing? On the PJL, Faultless, and the big conversation: can we become…
Jul 13
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Erin Lane
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The Real Cost of Horses: Volume 1
I overdrew my account to show one horse for one week, and I'd do it again. Here's the whole bill, and why I'm done making the struggle my identity.
Jul 11
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Erin Lane
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The Feed: June 2026 Round Up
The things that I read, consumed, changed, did, and gave up that improved my life as a horse person last month.
Jul 6
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Guilt has become the horse world's love language.
On the guilt that follows the relief, and why a day off started to feel like proof I don't want it enough.
Jul 2
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Sometimes a horse show is actually just a horse show.
The round, the money, the whole plan for a life in horses. How much of the weight is real, and how much did we pile on?
Jul 1
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June 2026
The call is coming from inside the barn.
Mean girl culture in the horse world isn't happening to us; it's something we keep choosing.
Jun 28
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You can belong at the top of this sport and still feel like a fraud.
On the two lives I lived in the horse world, the imposter syndrome that runs all the way up, and the belonging money was never going to buy.
Jun 26
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The goalposts are supposed to move.
The dream that got you into horses doesn't have to be the one that keeps you here.
Jun 24
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Horses were never something we 'just' do.
Why we build our entire lives around these animals, what it gives us, what it costs us, and who we become. The beginning of 'anyway, horses.' - welcome…
Jun 23
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